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Dorothy Buckhanan Wilson Installed as International President of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated

Dorothy Buckhanan Wilson Installed as International President of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated

Charlotte, NC (BlackPR.com)

Dorothy Buckhanan Wilson of Milwaukee, Wisconsin, a business executive, was installed as the 2014-2018 International President of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated (AKA)

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Nielsen Expands Communications Leadership Team with Key Media Relations Hire

Nielsen Expands Communications Leadership Team with Key Media Relations Hire

New York (BlackPR.com)

New York (BlackPR.com) -- Nielsen today announced that Andrew McCaskill has joined Nielsen as Senior Vice President, Corporate Communications. He will report to Chief Communications Officer Laura Nelson.

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Voter Suppression: It’s Mobilization Time

Voter Suppression: It’s Mobilization Time

Written by Peter Grear

With this article we will start detailing the ingredients of a revisable action plan that needs comments and revisions as we move toward the Tuesday, November 4, 2014 General Election.  

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Las Vegas Comedian James Bean's Candid Account Of His Struggle With Suicide

Las Vegas Comedian James Bean's Candid Account Of His Struggle With Suicide

WHEN THE HUMOR IS GONE

James Bean has shown insight and understanding of the darkest moments of many people’s lives as well as ideas on how one could begin to create a life worth living even out of the depths of despair.” -– Rhonda Duncombe, LMFT, LADC

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Voter Suppression: NC Black Republican Advisory Board

Voter Suppression: NC Black Republican Advisory Board

Written by Peter Grear

Educate, Organize and Mobilize: I confess that I’m amazed. The Republican National Committee and the Republican Party of North Carolina announced last week that they have launched theNorth Carolina Black Advisory Board (BRAB) 

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Tips for Managing Stress in Your Life

Written by State Point

Stress is not only unpleasant; it can be overwhelming, ultimately preventing you from solving the problems that caused the stress in the first place. But getting focused can help you feel happier and be more successful professionally, financially and in your relationships, say experts.

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Voter Suppression: Defeating it requires two massive efforts

Voter Suppression: Defeating it requires two massive efforts

Written by Peter Grear

For black voters, Benjamin Jealous expressed what I believe to be the critical message for black voters when he said that the best way to overcome massive voter suppression is through a massive wave of voter registration.  Thankfully, the NAACP is putting this theory into action through the Youth Organizing…

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Black Women are Taking Care of Business

Black Women are Taking Care of Business

Written by Freddie Allen

Instead of breaking the glass ceiling, Black women have increasingly started making their own. According to the Center for American Progress, an independent, nonpartisan progressive institute, Black women are the fastest-growing group of entrepreneurs in the country.

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Voter Suppression: Is it partisan?

Voter Suppression: Is it partisan?

Written by Peter Grear

Educate, Organize and Mobilize: I’ve been doing commentaries on our Campaign to Defeat Voter Suppression since November, 2013.  Because the right to vote is fundamental to our democracy, I’ve tried to promote a non-partisan theory of voter enfranchisement. 

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Why vote? ALEC and the Doctrine of Exclusion

Why vote? ALEC and the Doctrine of Exclusion

By Peter Grear

Educate, Organize and Mobilize: Frequently, in going forward it is imperative to examine your history.  In 1638 the Maryland Colony issued a public edict encouraging the separation of the races that became the public policy of America. 

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Doctor to the Elderly Grapples with Own Father's Aging

Written by Featured Organization on 27 February 2009.

As a geriatrician, Jerald Winakur, M.D., has dedicated his career to helping the elderly live well and, when the time comes, die with grace. Even so, he was unprepared for his own father’s descent into disability and dementia. “I may be a geriatrician, but coming to grips with the ravages and the realities of the aging process in my father has been no easier for me than for anyone,” Dr. Winakur wrote in a new book, “Memory Lessons: A Doctor’s Story.” “Even though I have the experience to know what is coming, the training to describe in detail the pathologic progression of his disease, the medical vocabulary to document each step of his demise, I am powerless to prevent any of it.”

Dr. Winakur, a clinical professor of medicine and associate faculty member in the Center for Medical Humanities and Ethics at The University of Texas Health Science Center at San Antonio, wrote “Memory Lessons” to come to terms with his parents’ aging process, particularly that of his father.

Leonard Winakur was one of the “oldest old,” a gerontological term for those over age 85. The oldest old are the fastest-growing segment of American society: Their numbers will grow from about 4.5 million today to almost 10 million in 2030. Only one in 20 is fully mobile, and half are cognitively impaired. Leonard Winakur, who developed Alzheimer’s disease, was one of them.

At times, Dr. Winakur was able to draw upon his medical training. He knew which medications might calm his father when the elder Winakur grew agitated, delusional or abusive. And, with considerable assistance from his mother, his brother and a home health aide, Dr. Winakur was able to keep a promise he made when his father was in his early 80s: no more hospital stays.

But a medical degree could not prepare Dr. Winakur for the flash of anger he felt when his father, overwhelmed by the outside world, refused to attend the wedding of his first grandchild – Dr. Winakur’s eldest daughter. Specializing in geriatrics didn’t ease Dr. Winakur’s guilt as he wondered whether he could have been a better son. All of his training did not provide a solution when his demented father roamed the house at night, keeping his wife – who cared for him all day – awake until she was frantic.

“I am the doctor in the family; I have special knowledge, a learned patience, observational skills honed over decades,” Dr. Winakur wrote. “And still the nights are bad. My father is only getting worse.”
The story started out as an essay titled “What Are We Going To Do With Dad?” that appeared in Health Affairs, a health policy journal, in 2005. The Washington Post ran an excerpt, which was picked up by newspapers across the country. The essay struck a chord, and Dr. Winakur began receiving thousands of heartbreaking e-mail messages from people who were going through the same thing.
He was overwhelmed at first, but he came to the realization that those who wrote to him were not necessarily looking for answers: “They wanted to tell me their stories, just as I had told them mine.”
Dr. Winakur’s story had unexpected bright spots. While his father had been stoic all his life, dementia swept away those inhibitions, allowing him to freely express affection for his sons. “It was always a surprise when he said, ‘I love you, too,’” Dr. Winakur said.

His father’s final days also rekindled in Dr. Winakur the idealism and innate compassion that he had when he first went into medicine.
Even as he cherished these gifts, Dr. Winakur knew all too well that there was only one way his father’s story could end: “There is no triumph over aging, after all.”
 
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